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Best way to solve Infidelity in Nigeria

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Two homes that met fatal ends,  after two spouses took the law into their own hands to protest against their partners ’ alleged acts of infidelity

In the Adekaa community, Gboko , 33 -year old Joshua Terkaa - Uhir , allegedly stabbed his wife , Lucy , to death with an axe after accusing the mother of two of extramarital affairs.
In a similar incident , a woman, Folashade Idoko , stabbed her husband , Lawrence , to death with a knife after the latter allegedly received a telephone call from a suspected female lover at their home in Ayetoro , Oto- Awori .

Infidelity has been a major issue breaking many homes in Nigeria, increased divorces, and sometimes leads death as we have seen in the two cases and we found out that infidelity is non respecter of gender as it is both common with the male and the female folk...

But what are the reasons for infidelity? Permit me to mention a few which are, greediness, lack of  contentment, lack of trust, lack of respect at home,Issues Involving Body Image and Aging,Living Apart for Extended Periods of Time etc... (i might write about these causes in details later)

To reduce this menace from Nigeria, I think the house of assembly should start making and enacting strict and rigid laws on infidelity that carries penalties for cheaters in a marriage some of these laws have already been enacted in American states like Kansas, Florida, Illinois etc...

Don't persecute me, this is just my opinion, what is yours?


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